Looking for friends to choose grace with me...

Just doing a little reflection and thinking about my business with Beachbody, as a coach.

I've always known the level of success that could be achieved and that I *wanted* to achieve but I have yet to be able to reach. I'm not a top 10 coach, I'm not even a top 100 coach. I have made a really great income, but not six figures. (which is totally okay!) I haven't been able to reach my desired level of success, not because I haven't had the drive or surrounded myself with the right people...but because of my internal "fear of success".

I know you're thinking 'fear of success'? What? How can someone fear SUCCESS???

I was afraid of losing myself in this business, in the numbers and the constant of running a business. I was afraid of being tethered to my business, instead of living the freedom of time that I was pursuing (and have, personally, for the most part - but I also want it for Kevin, too.)

I have been too wrapped up in my fear to really see my success thus far. And, to see that when I slip up and get lost (because I will - I'm not perfect, by any means) that I can choose to give myself the gift of grace...and keep going.

I know my calling and that is to encourage, inspire, and equip other women - that are also entrepreneurs and moms and that share in my passion of health, fitness, and whole self wellness. I have been in the depths of depression, self-loathing, self-doubting, low self-esteem and self image. I have seen the darkness that can easily take over our lives when we allow that darkness to be all encompassing.

But, I have also been blessed to find an opportunity that has allowed me to live my calling, that helped 'save' me from myself, that helped give me a sense of purpose again, beyond being a mom and wife. It has allowed me to encourage, inspire, and equip other women. It has allowed me to live out my calling and marry it with my passion.

And, I want to help you do that same thing and to build a business from home that you can be proud of and live out your calling.

I am looking for 5 FRIENDS to join me on this journey in living out our passion and calling to help others live healthier, more fulfilling lives.

If you believe that you are missing the mark in living out your calling and believe that this opportunity may be for you, please fill out the application below. <3 

MINDSET MONDAY! Why you should be your biggest fan!

Post in the comments something that you LOVE about yourself TODAY! 

5 Reasons You're Not Losing Weight!

 5 Reasons You're NOT Losing Weight!

1. You're not drinking enough water.

Besides keeping you hydrated, drinking water on the regular, according to recent studies, can aid with weight loss. Filling up on water before a meal helps encourage portion control, and eating foods that contain a lot of water (like fruits and veggies) will fill you up faster, causing you to eat less. A small study even found that drinking cool water can speed up metabolism and discourage cravings for sugary drinks like soda and juice.

2. You're OVEReating!

So, you're making MUCH healthier choices and you THINK you're doing awesome, but in reality, while you are eating HEALTHIER, you're still eating TOO MUCH! Nuts, avocados, whole wheat pasta, olive oil, and dark chocolate are all natural and healthy, but they aren't void of calories. You still need to watch how much you eat of the good stuff. For example, avocado offers a ton of health benefits, but an entire fruit is over 200 calories. (21 Day Fix and 21 Day Fix Extreme BOTH teach you proper portions of not only your favorite foods, but healthy foods, too!)

3. You're a Cardio Queen (or King)!
If you live on the treadmill but never lift a pound, then you're missing out on one of the most important pieces of the fitness puzzle. Not only does weight training prevent injury by strengthening the joints, but it also builds muscle mass and increases metabolic rate. Bonus: thanks to a revved-up metabolism, you'll keep burning calories long after you've slipped off your sneakers. You . didn't know lean muscle mass burns more calories throughout the day?

4. Your significant other isn't on the same healthy road...
A significant other who's on the same or similar path can be a huge help to your weight-loss goals, but if your partner is not on board, then your relationship may be making you fat. You can't expect to lose weight if your partner is constantly ordering takeout, wants to go out for ice cream, or encourages you to sleep in instead of hitting the gym! Communicating that you need their support in losing weight is a great first step in finding compromises — for both of you. To start, next time you go out to dinner, discuss splitting an entree and choosing either an appetizer OR dessert to share. You'll not only save CALORIES, but money, too! Score!

5. You Don't Eat Your Greens! 

Eating five to seven servings of fruits and veggies a day is important for everyone, but dieters who go heavy on the produce are more likely to lose and keep the weight off, since a diet full of plant-based foods offers a greater variety of nutrients with fewer calories — and all that fiber keeps the body feeling fuller longer. Not only that, but you'll start feeling better almost immediately (as long as you're eating a variety) because you will be working on those nutrient deficiencies! 

If you're struggling and need extra support and accountability, feel free to contact me at candace@flabbymomtofitmom.com - I would love to help YOU get back on the road to healthy!

My newest adventure...21 Day Fix Extreme!

My newest adventure...

...is the 21 Day Fix EXTREME workout program. I am beyond excited for it as I am within 10-15 lbs of my goal weight. But, even moreso than hitting that ever elusive number is feeling confident in my body, in myself, and in my ability to complete this program as laid out. I am excited for this new challenge and ready to tackle it head on! 

Below, you will find a sample of my first week's meal plan. As you can see, I'm a creature of habit and routine. Sticking with the same meals for the first three days allow me to meal prep effectively so that I have meals that are easily accessible and ready to go whenever I need them to be. (Every two to three hours).

On to what's different about this program versus the original 21 Day Fix...

-NOT a beginner program (you would need to complete AT LEAST two rounds of the original to attempt this one...)

-there are no cheats this time around - no wine, no chocolate, no extras. Period.

-Autumn gives you her personal Countdown to Competition plan that utilizes carb depletion to prepare for an event or bikini competition

-the workouts are MUCH HARDER - think the original Fix on steroids!  EVERY video utilizes bands or weights - even the cardio videos! 

-narrowed down food lists for each container

What's the same?  The containers. Shakeology is still able to be used. 

This is a totally NEW program and meant for people who are already accustomed to an intense workout program. Again, not a beginner program.

On to the goods - here is my first three days on plan...

DAY	MEALS	MENU	G	P	R	Y	B	O	T
DAY 1	Breakfast	Egg Whites with Spinach and Oatmeal with Banana	1	1	1	1
	Snack	Shakeology w/ medium pear		1	1
	Lunch	Turkey Burger with avocado slices & steamed Broccoli	1		1		1		1
	Snack	Green Tea
	Dinner	Grilled Chicken with quinoa & asparagus	1		1	1		1	1
	Snack (Dessert)	Chamomile Tea
	Total		3	2	4	2	1	1	2
DAY 2	Breakfast	Egg Whites with Spinach and Oatmeal with Banana	1	1	1	1
	Snack	Shakeology w/ medium pear		1	1
	Lunch	Turkey Burger with avocado slices & steamed Broccoli	1		1		1		1
	Snack	Green Tea
	Dinner	Grilled Chicken with quinoa & asparagus	1		1	1		1	1
	Snack (Dessert)	Chamomile Tea
	Total		3	2	4	2	1	1	2
DAY 3	Breakfast	Egg Whites with Spinach and Oatmeal with Banana	1	1	1	1
	Snack	Shakeology w/ medium pear		1	1
	Lunch	Turkey Burger with avocado slices & steamed Broccoli	1		1		1		1
	Snack	Green Tea
	Dinner	Grilled Chicken with quinoa & asparagus	1		1	1		1	1
	Snack (Dessert)	Chamomile Tea
	Total		3	2	4	2	1	1	2

I'll be taking my before photos and measurements tonight and posting those in the morning, so keep a look out! I'm excited to keep you all up to date on this program and share a few new recipes and other fun stuff along the way! 

Want more info on this program or the original 21 Day Fix?  Shoot me an email at candace@flabbymomtofitmom.com and let's talk! Or, follow me at Flabby Mom to FIT Mom <---by clicking right there! ;)